Where to strike, where never to, how to build up, how to read your partner, and how to keep your toys clean.
Session 1 — the origin and purpose of NVC, and why it is the load-bearing skill of kink.
Session 2 — self-empathy, and the guilt/shame/anger that distort what you ask for.
Session 3 — observation, feeling, need, request: the literal anatomy of a negotiation.
Session 4 — the dynamics of empathy: presence over advice, especially in aftercare.