NVC for Kink
Nonviolent Communication, applied to negotiation, consent, power exchange, and repair. Nine short video lessons, each with a quiz.
Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication (NVC) is a framework for saying what you observe, feel, need, and want — without blame, pressure, or demand. It maps almost uncannily well onto kink: negotiation, check-ins, aftercare, D/s authority, and the hard conversation after a scene goes sideways. This Skills-tier course walks the nine sessions of Rosenberg's own training course and, for each, draws out how it applies to what we actually do. Watch the video, read the short applied summary, pass a five-question quiz. Finish all nine to earn the NVC for Kink badge.
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- Lesson Start Here: The Model and Why It Runs Everything
- Lesson 1: Why Communication Is the Skill Under All the Others
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 1: Quiz
- Lesson 2: Talking to Yourself First
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 2: Quiz
- Lesson 3: The Four-Part Model
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 3: Quiz
- Lesson 4: Empathy — Being With, Not Fixing
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 4: Quiz
- Lesson 5: Inside an Ongoing Dynamic
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 5: Quiz
- Lesson 6: Authority — Given, Not Taken
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 6: Quiz
- Lesson 7: The Power of Empathy — Conflict & Repair
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 7: Quiz
- Lesson 8: Protective Force & the Community
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 8: Quiz
- Lesson 9: Gratitude, Not Praise
- Quiz NVC for Kink — 9: Quiz